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Years ago, I came across a sweet little rhyme to help you stay on track with gift giving, even when the pressure to splurge sneaks in. Here it is:
“Something they want, something they need, something to wear, something to read.”
Here’s how to use this method and make the most of gift giving with your kids. (With real life examples for my 2.5 year old.)
Something They Want
Every child has their wish list! This part of the rhyme lets you give in a little to those wishes – big or small. This year, I bought mega building blocks. Prioritize quality over quantity—choose something sturdy and lasting if it’s a toy or gadget. If the “want” is expensive, consider teaming up with loved ones to share the cost.
Something They Need
This is the practical part of the rhyme, but it can still be fun! Think about items that your kiddos actually need but might not ask for—things that simplify their day while putting a smile on their face. A cozy new backpack, upgraded sports equipment they’ve outgrown, or snuggly bedding, like themed sheets or a weighted blanket. This year, my best friend bought my toddler a letter tracing board!
Something to Wear
Clothing doesn’t have to be boring! This is an opportunity to make getting dressed feel special and fun. Whether it’s a funky graphic tee, a twirly dress, or the coolest sneakers on the block, this gift can combine practicality with your child’s unique style. This year, I bought dinosaur winter boots with a barefoot sole. (A feature that’s very important to me! Learn why here.)
Something to Read
Books open up whole new worlds for kids, no matter their age. This is where you can introduce them to adventures, explore their interests, or simply enjoy more bedtime stories together. Reading is such a gift in itself—it unlocks imagination, builds empathy, and strengthens their connection to the world. Books are gifts that keep on giving. This is my 2.5 year old’s current favorite!
Making the Rhyme Your Own
Some families add “Something to Do” for activity-based gifts like museum passes, cooking kits, or art supplies. Others include “Something to Share” to emphasize togetherness with games or adventures everyone can enjoy.
Remember, thoughtful doesn’t mean complicated. That’s the beauty of this rhyme—it simplifies the process while keeping the focus on love and joy.
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xo, Mary